The first step to take is talking to your parents. Find out what their needs and wishes are.
Get those needs and wishes in writing. An estate plan. A living will. Do Not Resucitate, Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare (DPAHC). Call me to find out which of those you need.
Don’t wait until your parent is incapacitated. Make sure they have these records and you know where they are:
• Financial information: Bank accounts, investment accounts, real estate holdings
• Legal information: Wills, durable power of attorneys, health-care directives
• Funeral and burial plans: Prepayment information, final wishes
• Medical information: Health-care providers, medication, medical history
• Insurance information: Policy numbers, company names
• Advisor information: Names and phone numbers of any professional service providers
• Location of other important records: Keys to safe-deposit boxes, real estate deeds
Include your siblings in the plan. Avoid surprises. Set expectations.
Discuss where they will live, especially if they need help. If unsure, use a Geriatric Care Manager to assess their needs and discuss options. These professionals can give unbiased advice and help bring compassionate reason to the process. Call me for references to a GCM.
Call me if you need assistance in these steps or developing this plan.
Mike Dayoub is a fee-only financial planner in Milton, GA. Website.